“Dear “Men” of St. John’s,

Telling me we “don’t have a romantic connection” (after two dates where you haven’t made a move) isn’t really cutting it anymore. I’m trying here; I’m being funny or I’m laughing at your jokes, I’m not putting on a show or playing any games, generally being someone who is at least partly likeable. Yet because I’m shy/I don’t try to screw you on the first date, I get blown off. I’ve let people down before when something doesn’t feel right, but I give it a try and I don’t act like an asshole when I do it. Doesn’t anyone want to get to know someone instead of just getting off?” – Looking for Something More