Newfoundlanders love to hate things so much I’m sitting here wondering where the whole “friendly Newfoundlander” even thing comes from.
Take how we just treated Anthony Bourdain. A CNN travel-and-food show cannot come here and rave about how amazing the place is without us publicly lambasting them for how they went about it. Only in Newfoundland.
Yes, Anthony Bourdain pronounced Newfoundland wrong. But how many Newfoundlanders can pronounce Oaxaca, Mexico or Aquebogue, New York? Even popular spots like The Maldives are commonly pronounced wrong (No, it’s not Mal-Dives) But the people who live there would likely correct us with a friendly smile, tell us Mohl-Deeves. Us though, we act like it’s an affront against us he said it wrong.
The poor guy started the episode asking how to pronounce it, so he wouldn’t get crucified, but instead of respecting his efforts, we called him out. Despite the fact we Newfoundlanders basterdize all the remnant French culture in our province by pronouncing it wrong. I haven’t heard a single resident of Port-Aux-Choix pronounce their own hometown correctly.
And yeah, the word Newfie sucks, but flipping out at someone instead of explaining that to them gets us nowhere. It wasn’t even Bourdain who said it, but a person from his show in a Tweet, genuinely unaware it was insulting. And really, think about it, would he have typed that if he knew it was derogatory ( of course not, he’d be fired)? Do you know if people from New Zealand hate being called kiwis or Australians Aussies? I don’t, but I trust if I called a New Zealander a kiwi they wouldn’t eviscerate me online, but rather explain why it’s a bad word, and humbly accept my genuine apology. I wish we’d done the same. I wish we were as friendly as we claim.
The knee jerk reaction of Newfoundlanders is to flip out at people and tell them how stupid they are. And yeah, he said Capelin wrong (or not like we say it), but can you pronounce all the fish dishes served in a place you’ve never been? We’re farming Tilapia here, I’ve heard it called til-a-pee-a by more than one Newfoundlander, so there: we’re all stupid too.
We expect everyone to know all about us. It’s the epitome of being self-absorbed and uncultured. Maybe it’s an island effect: we’re landlocked away from other cultures, so we don’t know how to interact with anyone but ourselves. Not that we’re friendly to each other, either. Every day here, social media has its public pile-on of the day, on whoever said something too easily misconstrued, overblown, and flagged around unfairly, out of context, and in a simplified manner. In Newfoundland, there is no second side, nor nuance and context to a story – just idiots calling idiots idiots.
Sadly I can’t sign my name to this article, or you’d all hang me online. That is, if you’re not too busy yanking your kids out of classes on LBGT inclusion, or telling your youth they’re not welcome to paint a pride crosswalk.
Are we better than we’ve been lately? Can we try to be? I mean, if I was Anthony Bourdain, I certainly wouldn’t come back to a place that — in exchange for filming a show here and saying how amazing it is — we barraged him with insults over very trivial things.
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We were confronted by a corner brook man in our own mainlander home in ontario recently. I was told by him that he is more Canadian than I am. We were threatened physically and made to fear for our safety.in our mainlander home by a Newfoundlander. He was paid to install a microwave in our home. I was a paratrooper for Canada before he was born and born here. Some of my ancestors were Northwest Mounted Police. I am writing a peace treaty to stop world War 3. Our own mainlander country is not so safe. No one ever acheived such an evil such as this corner brook Newfie man that attacked us.
Newfies are our worst!!! I prefer anyone from anywhere in the world to work for me than a rude ignorant NEWFIE!!!!! I never paid someone who threatened me but a NEWFIE!!! YOU FUCKING HATING. BIGOTED IGNORANT RUDE Threatening White DEVILS that are Canada’s BURDEN EVERYWHERE.
The other day a corner brook boy threatened us in our own home and committed a.hate crime here in ontario. Sorry I. did not know I need to fear newfoundlanders but I do. I did not know we were pieces of shit to you on the Rock. I report him to you and not the cops from a piece of.shit mainlanders giving newfoundlander work and money.
Well said. Thank you to the author.
Gaslighting seems to be the name of the game in NL. Not exactly constructive replies on here either eh? I’d put money on if the same was said about another province this would be filled intelligent insights, both for and against what the author presented. Rather than.. proof that Newfoundlanders are generally pretty awful people.
I did some quick research. Check this out. Newfoundlanders are 2.5X more likely to cheat at a board game than any other province.
Newfoundlanders cheat on their spouses. A lot. Or at least in the St. John’s area they do.
Newfoundland is not a place to move to. Something about isolating newcomers..
The jail is also full in St John’s. The statistics on crime in St. John’s are vastly misrepresented due to that fact. They literally can’t fit anymore people in the jail so they keep the worst their and just let everyone else go. Crime central. It’s actually a very dangerous place to live.
See what I mean? Gaslighting. They clearly do it to each other. Like any dysfunctional family unit that seems all friendly and loving from the outside. It seems like they are actually tearing each other apart along with anyone who gets too close to “their own”. No?
Just say’n 🙂
I have lived and worked in ft Mac all my live the Newfie’s are back stabbing lie to your face kind of folks if you are good at wt you do and intelligent they hate you and group up to bully you they are immature and dense and I can’t help to wonder if it was not for ft Mac where would they all be in their lives on the rock inbreeding and collecting welfare, there is something genetically wrong with them
Don’t worry, now that no bag of shit mainlander tourists are allowed here we are finally getting the peace we once had before fucking retards flooded Newfoundland with ignorant dumbass mainlanders. I actually hope this virus stays around, we over here might have 1 or 2 cases a week, while mainland has thousands a day because we know how to stay home when there is an outbreak. Get lost you fucking retarded self loving piece of shit
Ben…I find your slurs to be;
1) Offensive to yourself!
2) Written like the uneducated inbred that you are . I have to ask, “Why don’t you sell your trailer and go back to school.
I just had to comment because long gone are the days of the nice Newfoundlander, and there is a good reason for that. We simply dont want our little island ruined by the same thing that is going on in the rest of Canada. That is why we are rude to you, we don’t want you here, nor do we want your modern problems that you have on the mainland. Just stay away. We treat mainlanders like shit, just the way you have treated us for hundreds of years. Don’t visit Newfoundland, we don’t want you here.
No, not really. I am rude when someone’s rude to me but otherwise I’m nice. None of my family members are rude, at my school only a few people are rude. I’m a newfoundlander. YOUR pretty rude calling everyone rude.
You fucking piece of shit are you just creating bots to spam this completely crap comment? Or are you personally typing up all of this trash? Great job, Being a shitty person and spamming garbage just to sway people to your side of the argument? For shame.
Bruv, I don’t know if this is satire, but I myself am a newfoundlander, and we can be complete assholes sometimes, but most of the time we are either decent or kind of passive-aggressive. Also, our province is not filled with racism and such, it’s just a bias from meeting one person. It’s no better on the mainland.
Wow. A Newfoundland Bully. This is one of the two most common species in Newfoundland – Narcissistic Newfoundlanders and Newfoundland Bullies.
It’s the same as any province. There are nice and not-so-nice folks. Canadians pride themselves on their modesty. However, Canadians can be just a nice or rude as anyone else in the world. The ‘friendly Newfoundlander’ is an overplayed stereotype. But they are not all assholes either.
Friendly Newfoundlanders! What a crock of shit! They are the biggest bunch of white trash, self-inflated assholes I’ve ever met.Britain knew what it was doing when it unloaded that money pit lined with complaining ass wipes onto Canada in 1949! Newfoundlanders LOVE getting jobs in the ROC but woe betide any Canadian who takes a job in Newfoundland that should only go to one of them! If the feds ever cut off the money tap from Ontario and Alberta . . . you’ll be able to hear the screams from Corner Brook in Japan!
I totally agree…people are so fooled by thinking Newfoundlanders are great. They are the worst people!
I have lived here all my life and I find Newfoundland people the meanest people and I have been to many places in Ontario and a couple in Nova Scotia. People here talk about everyone and never let anything go. They make people feel so bad about themselves and parents are just as bad as children when it comes to bullying. I hate Newfoundland for the people.Everywhere else i found great.
Sadly I also feel the same sentiments, lived away for years actually many provinces including Quebec. I have been home for too long now. I finally noticed or confirmed the other day. People Don’t want to see you happy or smiling, I get looked at as though I’m weird just by being friendly. I was bullied here as a teenager, took off when 19. Returned in my 30’s for personal family reasons. Last year planned on leaving this province as I feel it’s getting malicious, it’s disconnected in so many ways. Sadly Im now stuck here dealing with court with 2 people who hired to do some Contracting and Design work for me. Trying Not to get ripped off I hired individual who claimed to have access to contractors and electricians. Referred by a professor from a very well known institute. Well Talk about letting the evil in your home, gave them keys and all. Everything was a lie, but even worse. They knew I had injuries and had moving heavy items. they ripped the place apart and then telling me it was on me to get it fixed as I apparently said I would handle that !!! But it’s beyond that. Put death traps basically in place. Made my home a dangerous place in fact. But their behavior grew in malice as one in particular seemed to enjoy it and grew more malice with headgames and so forth. Refused to give me back items or money. Said there is no contract !!! Anyhow entitled brat who is a pathological narssisitic liar comes through so clearly now. So my dreams for new start in new province disappeared as the battle is now in court. They of course evaded being served .. it’s been a nightmare and it’s reflective of this province unfortunately as I’ve also been bullied by condo board members, work .. I feel like I’m in a bad high school and all those in authority are the bullies. And the government has all these acts and laws and contacts, all they seem to do however is tell you to get a lawyer ,,,,, There are many great people here but sadly the ugly seems to be predominantly taking over.
My experiences in this province have been extremely shitty – bullying, rudeness, gossiping, and other issues are here, like everywhere else. But it’s more prominent here – and that’s from talking to people lucky enough to leave/not have to live in this hellhole (trust me, if I could leave and never come back, I would).
The health care is even better in other provinces (such as British Columbia). Here, most doctors who only care about the money, they just want your MCP Number so they can bill government for your visit. And if you go to the Emergency Room or local walk-in clinic (specifically the hospitals and ONLY walk-in clinic, the Blackmarsh Family Care Centre) and let them know you don’t have a family doctor (and NOBODY in your area is taking new patients, so you’re basically screwed, especially if you can’t drive due to a medical condition to go halfway across this province to actually see a doctor taking new patients) they don’t give a shit, even if you’re asking for refill on an anti-seizure medication that’s non-addictive and you have been on for YEARS (but can no longer see your family doctor because he or she retired and nobody is replacing him or her so all of the doctor’s patients are stranded).
I used to be against public shaming but not anymore. Most of the doctors at The Blackmarsh Family Care Centre don’t give a fuck and ONLY want your MCP Number; specifically Eric Elli and Peter Zylbergold – Peter’s even giving HIMSELF positive reviews on “Google” AND “ratemd”; he has each positive review worded the same – the reason I know it’s him is because he is stupid enough to make his profile picture of himself under the name “Stephen O” in “Google” reviews. I tried to have the reviews he posted removed but can’t even though it’s against the rules to give YOURSELF positive reviews!
And The Waterford Hospital doesn’t give a shit about mental health OR physical health (read reviews and heard stories).
The Health Sciences Centre has a bad reputation too – almost the same as The Waterford Hospital.
St. Clare’s Mercy Hospital isn’t too bad, unless you have a Grand-Mal Seizure while in the hospital and strike a nurse named Carol Tracey while in the seizure. This happened to me and if you “assault” her, beware. She’ll charge you with assault and refuse to look at your medical file regarding your medical history, which includes seizures!
And the police here? They will charge you, but if you’re attacked they won’t do anything if you don’t have a witness OR there’s no video cameras. Carol apparently had a witness – oh yea, I forgot to mention the police didn’t even call me until a week later. The hospital was nice enough to release me while I was still unconscious, by the way. I apparently hit Carol during a seizure while my parents were gone to get the car – they weren’t even told about this until a week later, when the police called ME (I had no prior involvement with the police either). The police wouldn’t listen to me but thankfully the judge dismissed the charge.
So yea, Newfoundland is full of wonderful, judgemental, we don’t give a fuck (nor will we listen to reasoning) people. Time for Newfoundlanders to wake up, open their eyes, and listen to the actual reasons why people say that Newfoundlanders aren’t friendly. Stop drinking the Newfoundland water. That’s the only reasonable explanation I can think that would explain why they’re so rude, ignorant, judgemental, and won’t listen (will jump down your throat instead). And I now think that the signature facial expression is a sneer – I’ve noticed this, even on people that are far away (I know what a sneer is and I’ve read that other people noticed it too).
The Simpsons called Newfies stupid. I can think of something else that could be said that would not allow it to be aired 8:00 p.m. EST.
We moved here a while ago from Ontario. We are from Newfoundland but lived in Ontario for past 17 years. We find that Newfoundlanders have been some of the rudest we have ever met. They are either gossiping and slandering each other or complaining about something. Most I have met have a chip on their shoulder and seem so negative. For some reason they stare and glare at you as if you come from another planet. Not to mention they don’t look when they are driving almost running over children literally. Don’t get me started on the fact that if you don’t agree with their ideologies, then your treated really bad and they will make it known to everyone in the neighborhood to hate you as well.
Maybe the rude, ignorant Newfies should move to Ontario and stay there and leave the nice ones on the Rock. The behaviors I have seen out of them is just disgusting as I can’t believe for the life of me that this is what Newfoundlanders made themselves become. I think it is time they get back to the way they used to be and the way people truly remember Newfoundland to be like, during a time when you can go to someones house to ask for a stick of butter, now don’t dare do that anymore.
I was born in Newfoundland, and lived here until I was 8. Even though we moved when I was a kid, we always came back to visit. Actually, I even spent every summer here with my grandparents, well, until I was about 16 and started to work summer jobs as a teenager. But, I have always loved Newfoundland and it’s people. When I got married and had a family of my own, I always continued to come back for a holiday every 2 or 3 years. So, it is very understandable that I always vowed to retire back here. And, so I have; however, I am in the plans on moving away from the province that I always held dear in my heart. This is not the place I remember. I’m not sure if it has changed or if I just always saw this place through rose-coloured glasses – keep in mind, I was just a kid when I lived here and even though I continually came back, it was only for 2 weeks every couple of years for a vacation. Anyway, this is certainly not a place I want to retire. So many of you have ‘hit the nail on the head’ with your comments and, as sad as it is for me to admit this, I have to agree. One person said it best when they mentioned how Newfoundlanders are nosey – they are so nosey and I think it does come across as ‘friendly’ when you visit, but once you’ve actually lived here, you see it’s not ‘friendly’ it is just nosey. And, boundaries, these people would not know a boundary if it hit them in the head. And, someone else mentioned about the jealously and back-stabbing, and I have to agree on that front too – wow, these people are jealous, and they don’t want to see anyone get ahead. Then, there is the chronic complaining another comment mentioned – man, you got that right; these people will find something bad in everything and then complain about it. But, it’s not just these things either, it is the place in general. Have you seen the housing prices? If you want to live in a quiet neighbourhood, rather than the centre city/downtown area, $200,000 can’t get you a home unless it’s something that has been rented for the last 15 years and is falling down.They’ll ask $200,000 for that, and then you’ll need to invest $80,000 to $100,000 to gut it. Check out what $200,000 gets you in Moncton? And, if you all think Moncton is not as good as St. John’s/Mount Pearl/Paradise, then you have not lived there. It is beautiful, and it has more things going for it – it is a quick drive to 3 of the major cities in Canada; you can hop across the border for some cross-border shopping; and you can get out of there much more easily (let’s face it, unless you have time to waste on the ferry or a boatload of money to waste on over-priced airfare, you are basically stuck here). And, there are no more amenities in St. John’s than there are in Moncton. They tell me the housing market is actually lower now and was very high due to the Alberta money that was pumped into this province. I have 2 issues with that 1) so what about the poor Newfie who did not get a flyin/flyout job, how were they supposed to have survived these prices; and 2) if all that money was pumped into Newfoundland, then what have the government done with the money from the accompanying taxes – I don’t see better roads, more hospitals or better and/or more schools?! If Newfies want to rant and roar and complain, maybe they should run down to Confederation Building or up to Danny Drive (seriously, who names a street after themselves!!) and demand where all that tax money went for 15 years?! Check under Danny Drive – there might be a big underground bunker with a billion dollars there?! I am out of here as fast as I can. I wish I had not moved back because then I would not have this tarnished view of the place. Live and learn right? And, to anyone thinking Newfoundland is the best place, don’t fall for it. Sure, back in the day, it had 2 big things on its side 1) low crime rate and 2) great housing prices. Guess what? Crime is at an all-time high and cheap houses are a thing of the past. Crime has gone up, housing prices have gone up, but there are no more amenities and the government still sucks, so do your research.
Being a consultant of sorts I have worked in many places in Canada and though I’ve not been to Newfie Land have worked alongside and consulted with a few hundred.I found them either extremely nice and jovial or the polar opposite just white trash,foul mouthed ingrates looking for trouble.The other myth surrounding Newfs is that they are so tough.Not rue I’ve fought with a few and other have backed off once they start mouthing off. Take them or leave them,probably the latter. In fact let’s be honest Canadians are NOT the friendliest nation on Earth as they like to say every other day.No nation is except Sweden.
Lmao ya right that’s why everyone I meet all over Canada love us ,SMH
This place is a fucking disaster. Doesn’t feel like the rest of Canada and I’m happy for that! Tried dating a girl from NL. Her stuck up white Catholic family couldn’t wrap their heads around their daughter being gay for the whole five-ish years we were together. No respect, no recognition, no effort. Her manipulative and snotty mother couldn’t even look me in the eye. They all bitch and whine about not being understood or accepted in their little uncultured bubble they refuse to step out of, but have no hesitation to sling shit at anyone who isn’t : WHITE, STRAIGHT, RELIGIOUS, FROM NL. fuck right off. I’ve never met such entitled and rude people in my entire life. I’ll happily live my multi cultural, super gay, super secular life knowing I’ll never return to that sack of shit island and face their racism/homophobia/misogyny ever again. They truly are the reason for their own demise! Sincerely, The Mainlander You Hate
my moms family is from Placentia bay also – Sinnott – . mom would be 101 this year if she was alive.
One thing I like about Newfoundland is that we don’t have Earthquakes or hurricanes. Newfoundland also has a unique culture. A lot of people here are friendly. But we do have our problems.
The provincial government can’t handle money and the tax payers are suffering for it Some people can’t even afford food because of it.
Newfoundland also has a huge problem with toxic work environments. We don’t do anything about it because employment is scares.
Finally, we tend to put each other down. For example, not only have I started a blogging business, but I’m working with a friend and a co-worker to start a gaming/streaming service. People tell me that I should give up that stuff because I’ll never make any money. When I try to explain my business model, they don’t want to hear it.
Rudest people in Canada
Where’s your name? Mr. Anon…
Well, I have to say as a retired soldier who left home at a young and and returned to Newfoundland after 25 years of service to Canada and having lived all over the country and overseas, I lasted 2 years back in my hometown. The simplistic nature of newfoundlanders discuss me. They are them most disrespectful and nosy (mistaken as friendly) people I have ever met. Returning there with my wife and children of “difference” nashionality was a huge mistake, my childen were harassed at school, my property was distorted but fire (proven arson), my wife was called every name in the book. I have been on many tours of duty and feel proud of the fact that many of us Newfoundlanders serve side by side. To me Newfoundland is nothing but a burden to the rest of the country and the people have such a sense of entitlement that’s it is crazy. They are convinced that living in a hotel in fort Mac for a 14on 14 day off rotation to being in a foreign country for 9 months. Same hardships they think. Newfoundland can kiss my ass. Most who have never left are simply uneducated fools and act as if the entire world owes them everything. I think the original author of this article did the right thing by not leaving his name because the hillbilly drug attics of the province would only lash back on social media as they are pure cowards when standing toe to toe with a real person.
Ret: MWO Bengerman Dover
I spent a few years on the rock , Newfie’s are all a bunch of two faced assholes , most gossip bags in one area I have ever seen . No teeth no class . Fuck Newfoundland .
A lot of inbreeding in the province due to the demographic,simple explanation for the way Newfie’s act.
Rick, I went through a similar experience. My family was from there but I grew up on Ontario. Used to visit Newfoundland in the summers and had dreams of living there. I won a job competition with the Newfoundland Government for what I thought was my dream job. 5 years of hell, no exaggeration. I hope you get out soon.
Lived there for 5 years. Couldn’t agree more. I moved there for a job competition I won with the government at a park. I don’t even know where to begin with my surreal experience. In a nutshell in my first week of work with government employees I was told to “who the fuck did I think I was coming to Newfoundland taking jobs away from Newfoundlanders and I should fuck off back to the mainland” “women shouldn’t be allowed to do this kinda work” Who did I fuck to get the job” ” what kinda misses my age doesn’t have children or isn’t married, there must be something wrong with me” “was I one of those lesbos?” . I saw animal neglect, incompetence, bullying and harassment theft of government equipment on a daily basis. Misleading the public…no one did jack shit about any of it. A complaint was filed so they guys working there threatened to burn my house down. No one cared. So many people came to me in this organization and said how dysfunctional and toxic it was and how many people have had to quit and it had been going on for years and said I had to do something. When a complaint was filed no one talked. Management and HR just covered it all up and all of those people still work there. It’s seriously messed up.
“sum tough you is b’y”
Leave your name you stupid baywop skeet newf and be a man. Tough guy loser.
I spent a lifetime away, came ‘home’ 6 years ago to plant my roots. This place is fucked from the bottom to the top. Always has been, always will be. Nothing is done right here and newfies are ignorant stuck in the 20th century hillbillies. Really looking forward to closing up shop on this godforsaken rock, getting the fuck out of here and never looking back
Lard Tundrin jeesuz.
Yes, Bourdain fucked the pronunciation up (later, and probably after the editing had cut it out of place). DUELS have been fought over the correct pronunciation.
Newfoundlanders are considered friendly – and we are – to everyone from outside NFLD. We have repeatedly sold the shop out from under ourselves either out of low-cultural esteem or fear of hardship.
We shouldn’t be known as the friendliest, but we ought to be known as the most passionate.
They say In Vino Veritas, but in Newfoundland, it ought to be In Veritas Vinegare. Newfoundlanders don’t handle the truth about ourselves well at all. We’re fucking backwards on so many things andyet self-congratulatory about how well we are doing in areas where we simply lag behind the rst of the developed world… there’s no big drug problems in outport newfoundland… yeah? you think that’s because of a lack of access or a lack of funds?
This province sickens me. I have seen people from outside the province taken into other people’s homes, yet those same people will spit on a welfare-receiving Newfoundlander as lazy without knowing SHIT about their specific case.
I have learned not to trust too many people from Newfoundland unfortunately. I learned that they will be nice to your face but talk all that good shit behind your back. At work especially they will go behind your back to talk to your supervisor and even above them just to make themselves look good in their eyes. I have seen it too many times for me not to say something now. I would like to look at Newfoundland as a beautiful place but whenever I hear the word now it makes me sick and I don’t like that. All I can say is be truly kind and don’t talk behind people’s backs or try to get them in trouble because maybe trouble will find you one day. I will also say I have met some kind newfies too that keep to themselves so they are out there and i’m surprised and happy when I do meet them :).
The author of this is a smarmy gutless swine. Leave your real name, and grow a backbone.
@Eelanus: This town does not allow backbones. We’re too busy gossiping about and hating on each other to welcome an alternative opinion. The mean nature of your comment prove’s this article’s point though? Some friendly b’y!
@derek – the mean nature of my comment is a response to an arsehole tarring us all with the same brush. I’m not gossiping about anybody – I have the guts to speak my mind and leave my name attached when responding to somebody. Calling us all uncultured, that we’re “just idiots calling idiots, idiots”?
Whoever wrote this piece can eat a bushel of dicks.
come to my house in nfld and ill shove this article down ur throat.
I agree wholeheartedly, the way nflder’s treat one another is sad. Ive lived away before and only nflder’s are incredibly rude, condescending, nasty, jealous, thinks everyone they dont know is a cocaine dealer, just plain garbage people. Also what the f*** is up with the instense staring and glaring??, Proud to be a canadian but ashamed to be a nflder.
We’re nice to tourists but not each other. I know this because I live here but not everyone knows me (even though I’ve lived here for 26 years). Sometimes, if a person is nasty to me, I will say (loud enough for them to hear but not for everyone else to hear) “Sorry, I’m from Ontario (which is true since I was born there) I thought Newfoundlanders will be friendly.” And guess what happens after I say that? The person will then “become” friendly. So it’s not a myth or assumption that Newfoundlanders pretend to be friendly to tourists; I have experienced it myself since when I say that I’m not from here (which is true) they’re nice to me!
I couldn’t agree with you more. I live here (my family moved here when I was one year old) and I find Newfoundlanders to be extremely rude, judgemental, and if they can find a Scapegoat, they will assign that role to that person (I have the “honour” of having that role due to years of being bullied; it’s speculated that the people that bullied me got their ideas from the movie and/or novel “Carrie” by Stephen King – it’s sad that is where the bullies got their ideas). I am aware that other places in the world are just as bad and I have told friends I have that are not from here about several incidents that have happened and they said that they have found (and heard stories from other people) Newfoundland to be a place they wouldn’t want to live, even though we may not have as many murders or assaults as other provinces but the fact that we have the highest taxes, we can’t find work here, and next year will be even worse when we officially start paying for Newfoundland Hydro. All of these factors would either drive a sane person completely insane or away from the island. I would leave if I had the money, but I don’t, so unfortunately I’m probably going to be here until I die.
You may bash me on my “negative” opinion but it’s what I feel and I think there’s something called “Freedom Of Speech”.
i lived in newfoundland for nearly 40 years born and raised except for the few years i spent away for work. i traveled all over the island and have family and friends from port aux basque to st. johns. during my time away i met the love of my life who is a beautiful immigrant woman. we had kids and decided moved back to newfoundland together to start a small business and raise our kids away from the crazy city life. we have been living back home in newfoundland now for around 5 years.
now let me tell you something about newfoundland. i love newfoundland. i think newfoundland is the most beautiful place on earth even though i did not ever travel outside of canada. i am proud to be a newfoundlander and i am proud of my heritage and culture. but lets get down off these high horses and talk for a moment and keep this as real as possible.
*** yes i will agree that newfoundlanders are probably the most hospitable people in the world without a doubt hands down. remember i grew up here and i seen it all. newfoundlanders will give you the shirts of their backs without question. they will take you into their homes clothe you and feed you. newfoundlanders will welcome anyone with open arms and conversate with anyone anytime. ***
so before i let the cat out of the bag i will tell you that no matter what i am proud of newfoundland and newfoundlanders and how far we came and what we done but lets get one thing straight. as much as newfoundland is everything i say above they are also the most ignorant, two faced, back stabbing, shit talking, jealous, envious, hurtful, dont want to see anyone get ahead pieces of crap. (not all newfoundlanders but the majority – just like everywhere) and oh i can only imagine the responses to all this. but these are facts! here i will explain.
remember when i said we came home to start a business and that we have been here for 5 years and my wife is an immigrant? right so all was fine and dandy when we came home newfoundlanders were being newfoundlanders, nice, courteous, caring, involved, helpful… you get the idea. yup great newfoundlanders. we came home and things were slow going and my wife got to see newfoundlanders being newfoundlanders when we first came home.. almost like to put on a show. then as the years pass you get to see the real newfoundlanders. you see newfoundlanders are only everything good when you are new and they are trying to put on a show. but stay here for a while and try to do something positive or good for the community. then their true colors will show. when we were doing up polls about our business everyone was all for it and back patting and praising. once the business got up and running and it started to do good then you got to see the real newfoundlander, the ignorant, two faced, back stabbing, shit talking, jealous, envious, hurtful, dont want to see anyone get ahead pieces of crap newfoundlander.
you see there is a story about newfoundlanders that you will only ever hear if you grew up here and it goes back for decades. and thats the story about newfoundlander lobster.
you see there was a lobster trap at the bottom of the ocean and it was filled with lobsters… newfoundlander lobsters. it was a good trap and none of these newfoundlander lobsters could get out. they were there for days. and one day one of those newfoundlander lobsters managed to find a way out and just before he could fully get out the other newfoundlander lobsters kept pinching his tail and pulling him back in. over and over each time this newfoundlander lobster kept getting out the other newfoundlander lobsters kept pulling him back in.
perfect story that explains newfoundlanders to a t
That’s sad, and tragic!
Just received a news Article that Anthony Bourdain just died in France!!!
My Mom was a Newfoundlander and my Dad was From New Hampshire. We spent every summer in Placentia/ St Johns. I call it home because that’s how it was always referred to in my home. Going home. I turn into a different person there and my husband loves the transformation. In the US I don’t laugh very much. When I have to leave to come back I still cry on planes, Ferry’s, Driving. Nope don’t want to leave. The air smells different and when I drive there all I do is buy groceries at Bidgoods and laugh …really loud.
People everywhere complain but when I’m home I laugh, I have family, I hike I get my bakeapples and have smuggled more than one turnup back. I go out to the cabin with my cousins and I let go of what is really scary, and that is living here. If I had a penny for every time I corrected a pronunciation I’d be a wealthy girl. I have a deep and abiding love of Newfoundland and the people. You truly are the friendliest people I have ever met. I grew up with so much love. So that’s how your thought of.
Comparing mispronouncing the english name of a province, to mispronouncing foreign towns in foreign languages XD
Then BASTARDIZING (not “basterdizing”) english while criticizing us Newfies for allegedly “basterdizing” the French language.
This sounds EXACTLY like it was written by the kind of person that finds the word “Newfie” offensive. Which it is, as per their own words in the article.
What a joke. Doesn’t even have the backbone to sign their name to the article.
Agree with you 100% must be a millennial know it all entitled moron, won’t sign his name he says bcuz of backlash? Haha, to anyone hat does see my comment, i can guarantee you not many people will agree with the article or some of the comments about Newfoundlanders being two faced back stabbing, news flash you get those type of people EVERYWHERE Newfoundland wasn’t exempt from gettin a few assholes. I lived here all my life and still do have he money and means to leave and I never will. I love Newfoundland and Labrador and all the people in it.
So to those negative people just stop
It is a depressing place but it has advantages. I’ve lived away for a couple of years now and I have mixed feelings about it. There are some very cool people and the ones you know and love are always a treat to see. Amazing landscape. But there’s also a sour attitude, jealousy (especially between women), and just an overall lack of social boundaries. The worst is from the outport communities… most disastrous mentalities in the entire province and the epitome of embarrassment. But I guess that’s what happens when you’re living very far from everything important and have like 30 people (or less?) in your community. Sounds rude but the worst people I’ve ever met in NL have been from tiny outport towns.
Complaining is like pissing in a black pair of slacks. You get a nice warm feeling which no one else notices…….we should all invest in Depends.
I agree. People would cut your throat. And friendly? They have no people skills whatsoever. I’m embarrassed when tourists come.
Seriously, everyone? There are now so many anti-NL Newfoundlanders you could start your own political party. Yeah there are awful racist homophobic misogynistic idiot assholes here. But have you been to Toronto? Crappy people exist everywhere, but so do really awesome great people. Most of the people I know and love (and I love them DEARLY) are from and/or in NL.
Regardless of where you live, you’re not going to meet good people by staying indoors. Maybe more of you should be willing to brave the rain for a change.
Some people say this article is about someone complaining about Newfoundlanders complaining. As a freelance writer and former journalist who has studied and worked with the English language, I can honestly say the writer isn’t complaining. Rather, s/he is pointing out in a up front manner, the amount of complaining done by most Newfoundlanders. If only more members of society had the boldness to speak the truth. It is unfortunate, however, that the writer would not publish his/her name. But that’s their choice and don’t deserve to be abused for it in this comments section. I don’t with every aspect of this article but that’s okay because we all have different views on things in life. For example, I don’t mind being called a Newfie or Newf. I am proud of those names. But some people (like the author of this article) don’t like it. Live and let live, and let’s all get along.
I think you have met all the wrong people. I have lived in NL up until I moved to Ontario for 25 years. So, I do know a little of other cultures and different types of ppl. I’ve returned to retire 2 years now but nothing has changed. In our small community, ppl are friendly to each other and would help each other out without hesitation. Here in NL , they are proud ppl and giving ppl. Not all Newfoundlanders should be tared with same brush just because of some pols upbringing. In Ontario, if you say hi to a stranger, they look at you like your Cray Cray lol … I’m a Newfoundlanders and damn well proud of it.
Agree 100%. Very uncultured. My whole family is from newfoundland. I grew up half my life on the “mainland” and the other half in ontario. You would not pay me enough to move back there. Even tho all my family still live there. One word i would use for most newfoundlanders is Judgy… Very judgy!
Agree 100%. Very uncultured. My whole family is from newfoundland. I grew up half my life on the “mainland” and the other half in ontario. You would not pay me enough to move back there. Even tho all my family still live there. One word i would use for most newfoundlanders is Judgy… Very judgy!
Couldn’t have said it better. Newfies are the rudest, entitled, stuck up people I have ever met, and I am a Newfie.
I once got warned never to call myself a Newfie because I m black, I never really called myself a Newfie I only said I felt like one and the reason for this I find the word Newfie to be a very sexy way of calling someone from this province regardless of their color or origin, to me Newfies a nice people.
Bob – same last names, politics, religion? You obviously don’t know what you’re talking about
P.S. Newfoundland is a proper noun and you can pronounce it, however you goddamn like!
Bourdain wrote a condescending esssy about Newfoundlanders after his show like we were done kind of exotic old fashioned lay about people. I don’t know . Fuck celebrity . Pull him up on everything . He seemed to have a good time but he was slack in some departments , like everywhere people are bored so lets just whinge . Same everywhere . Australians are the same …. friendly whingers .
I was with you until you went all left wing about “LBGT inclusion”. Children shouldn’t be subjected to that stuff at a young age. I very proud people have the guts to put their foot down about it.
I think you’ve been away too long, living-in-Manitoba. Some go to where the buildings reach to meet the skies and some pine for the unique joy of being obligated to say hello to almost every person you see in the local shops because it’s likely either you know them yourselves or they are friends of your family, not to mention the subsequent gossip about how fat they’ve gotten or how slutty their daughter is or how much EI they’re collecting. Sniff. That inescapable crabs-in-the-bucket community of people with the same last names, opinions, religion, and politics; how quickly a small community can hammer down any sticking-up nail. A rainbow crosswalk is the least of your worries, believe me. Newfoundland’s a nice place to visit, but….
I genuinely agree with everything you said here but let’s not pretend that only Newfoundlanders get upset and fling comments online. That happens everywhere.
Thought it would be an article about how shitty people are towards each other here but instead I found an ad for some CNN bullshit TV show.
Just a few thoughts:
You’re not wrong on most of your points. People have made too big of a deal about foolish little things like how people pronounce Newfoundland or whether or not the term “Newfie” is offensive…it’s a lot of petty stupidity. I agree with you completely.
That said, I fundamentally disagree with the scope of your article–the people who are like this are a very vocal minority, and a much larger segment of Newfoundlanders do indeed represent the typical friendly nature for which we are famed.
I’m not about to hang you online, or otherwise, but I must say that I find this article to be rooted in the blatantly obvious and with no deeper research conducted. It’s not an article that I can take seriously, which is unfortunate because you do make good points.
Also, just a personal belief: if you’re not willing to take a stand in full, clear view–don’t make a stand. While I agree with a lot of your thoughts, you’re basically an atypically articulate internet troll who got access to platform and publisher. If you can’t face public expression of opposition to your position, you’ve got no place publicly expressing your own opinion. That’s called cowardice.
I am a Newfoundlander and people there are no different than anywhere else .I have live in BC for almost 18 years ,spent 30 plus years in NL .I chuckle to myself when I hear people say Newfs are friendly. Some are some aren’t same as anywhere else …..lots are mad at the world,choose to stay and complain about how hard done by they are ..
I moved here for a job under the expectation of the friendliness of Newfoundlanders. I quickly learned the facade is in place for tourism. Once living here I quickly realized how uncultured, uncivilized, rude and out of touch with the real world Newfoundlanders really are. This place is twenty years behind in evolution, style, manners, political leaders who could not run a lemonade stand without losing money and of course driving skills (or lack thereof). I have lived all across Canada, but this place takes the cake, I can’t wait to get out. As my family puts it, it is like Survivor except you want to get voted off the island. Great for visitors, sucks to live here.
God love you .You have said just about everything I feel think or have experienced ,,As long as you agree you are fine IF Not look out ,I have been called every name you can think of because I made a comment on the Word Newfie ,,,,,By the way I am a Newfoundlander who lived in Ontario for 25 years , ,,,,,hope we can hear more comments from you ,,,,,Cheers ,,,
Not sure who this meatball is that wrote this article. Apparently “Mexico” and “New York” are too complex and rich in language for us to know how to pronounce. Great article.
Married to a Newfoundlander and spent more time in NFLD than I care to remember, and though my experiences there by-and-large have been uneventful, I can say after almost 15 years of regular visits that it might be one of the thinnest-skinned populations on the planet. Possibly because of decades of being given the shaft provincially by the rest of the country as well as the geographical isolation, but I digress. Newfoundlanders can criticize themselves all they want, but don’t you dare try.
If you’re from “away”, complaining about the weather to a Newfoundlander will get the same reaction as if you just called their mother a whore.
As a CFA who’s been here for a while I have learned to agree with EVERYTHING Newfoundlanders will ever say when they start telling all the greatest and uniquely fantastic things that you can only find here on this island ( including, of course the people).
At first when I got here I started to tell some people that I had lived in many places around the world and that I didn’t really find the people here quite frankly very welcoming at all….BIG MISTAKE. Please dear CFA listen to me and do not ever do this even if your Newfoundland friend is educated or has been places, you will be blasted into oblivion for disagreeing with a well known “fact” , everybody says so , I dare you to say the opposite!!
I will finish this as well by not signing as I would probably be put on the next boat for ” the Mainland” ( funny how this pejorative word here is totally acceptable for everybody who isn’t a Newfie). BTW , as I said before I have lived in many places around the world but there is only one place so far where a local of where I lived told me to “go home!” ,I will let you guess where this was.
You should have signed your name to the article because you hit the nail right on the head. Good read!
Complaining about complaining. This kind of garbage writing is just propagating this garbage behavior. In this age, people just want to find some reason to become a victim. People are inherently good. Newfoundlanders are inherently friendly. People online become insufferable, whining imbeciles. Some people just need to let people be people and keep their negative opinions to themselves.
I have to agree. I call it hospitality washing. Looks great from a distance but get up close you can see it for what it is. A thin veneer that wears through at the slightest offence. Makes for great marketing in the short term, long term will be a disaster.
Catchy title at least. But I call BS!
You are complaining about people complaining. Your attempt to tarnish an entire province of people by writing about a handful of people trying to tarnish an entire group of people is just, I don’t know…lame. (yes, read that sentence again, slowly, so you understand what I am saying) Yes, I agree it’s a shame when people react, in a way that we feel is inappropriate, and naturally, it ticks you off. However, those people have the right to react, as do you.
An aware reader can mostly tell what kind of person an author is within their writing. What really frustrates me is that you are most likely the type of person that would fight for rights of people in general and more particularly good decent people that have been discriminated against for the actions of others. However, in your article you have slapped a label on a large group of people for the actions of a small group. Essentially the same actions you detest and stand up against.
This thing about keeping your identity from the article, it is most likely your attempt at being sarcastic and funny as to the context of the article, but to me, that’s just a statement that shouts, I like to have my opinions made public but I’m afraid of the reaction.
In honour of the true style of journalism, (although I have no association what so ever with journalism) I will close with my name.
This article is disgusting. As a Newfoundlander, now living in Manitoba, I strongly disagree with this. Yes there are newfoundlanders that are jerks and uncultured assholes. News Flash, there are those kind of people everywhere !! I was born and raised in that province, by two loving and respectful parents. I have grown and learned in a heritage rich environment where you can say hello to almost every person you see in the local shops because it’s likely either you know them yourselves or they are friends of your family. There’s a tight knit sense of community that is hard to find elsewhere. I’ve seen first hand how quickly a small community can band together to help those in need and I don’t think for one second that all Newfoundlanders represent anything of what you’ve stated. I’ve worked in touristry there, I’ve met so many different and kind people from outside the provience, and the people that I have met here in Manitoba who have visited NL have only had wonderful things to say about it. If anything I’ve learned since moving to Manitoba, it’s that no matter where you are from, there will be people that either don’t like where you’re from, your religion, your culture or will just be down right rude. Educate yourself a little bit, man. Or better yet, go there yourself and talk to some of the locals.
Wow really? So complaining about ppl complaining is any better? Haha too much time on your hands kid!
Okay, Overcast, your “guest author” makes valid points, about which I have no quibble. However, I do take issue with your editorial process, which somehow allows “Newfoundland’s Alternative Newspaper” to publish alternative spellings for “Port au Choix” and “bastardize”, use alternative sentence structure and grammar from what is commonly accepted in proper English, and wimp on using the author’s real name. C’mon, Overcast, if you want to be considered as serious journalism, it’s time to up your cred.
Seriously? Your going to compare pronouncing Newfoundland to pronouncing Oaxaca?
He’s willing to lambast Newfoundlanders. But not under his own name.
We pay too much attention to responses on social media. Believe it or not…it is not refective of most peoples view. You really should sign your name to this article, not doing so perpetuates my point exactly.
Every. Single. Thing. In. This.
Clap. Clap. Thank you for saving it. As a behaviour specialist and expert, watching how Newfoundlanders “get on” is hard to witness – the berating. The calling names. The bullying. The courts of public opinion by, as you pointed out, people who cannot pronounce their own town names correctly but are so quick to tear people apart.
By the way, I travel a lot and I’ve said a lot of names wrong… I’ve never been corrected by anyone about the “correct” saying. And as if most Newfoundlanders don’t say “mainland” “T-er-on-o” without disdain. It’s getting hard to watch and listen to.
I think we all need a healthy dose of reality and checking ourselves for perfection before we come down on someone else.
Spot on article, people here are way too sensitive, the good old east coast inferiorty complex mixed with a chip on the shoulder. It was downright embarrassing seeing the comments on the Parts Unknown page while the episode aired, seemed like people were expecting an episode of Land and Sea that visited every community and outport in the province, not to mention the gross animosity towards Quebec, every one off the head about two Montreal chefs being with him, completely overlooking the crew from Raymond’s who were showing him around. Saw some folks that were mad they didn’t mention Gander and 9/11, you know that time people acted as kind humans during a crisis like most people would, yet years later we can’t stop patting ourselves on the back about it. Whenever Newfoundland (AND LABRADOR!!!) is showcased in anyway on national TV, people start crying because they didn’t control the narrative, even Republic of Doyle got criticized for not showing more of the province, despite the fact it was about a P.I. based in St. John’s. I’m sure Bourdain has been trashed way more (the reaction to the West Virginia episode was salty at best), and he probably has better things to do than read online discourse, but the fact that he addressed the French criticism pretty much sealed the deal of him not coming back, or if he did, he’ll slip in and out, not worth the hassle
Can’t argue with anything said in this article. Whenever I talk to anyone elsewhere and they tell me they’ve heard that Newfoundlanders were the nicest people, I chuckle. Complaining is the official sport of Newfoundland, especially the snide sarcastic complaining you find online from Twitter, Reddit, Facebook, etc. We must have an amazing department of tourism as it seems they’ve been able to pull the wool over the world’s eyes on what people here are really like.